I write and then I delete because i feel quite inadequate not knowing how to put into words whatever I want to say . And whatever I mean to say will fall short. I want this post of mine to be about all you men out here on the blog, chivalrous men who have read and commented on my last posts, we the women and catch 22. So i thought its kinda selfish that we women keep talking about ourselves and what we go through but i know for a fact that its not easy for men too, being a man in a man's world is mighty tough. And i have seen that most men don't say a word even though they are the recieving end. So in a way, this is a tribute to all the guys here, my way of saying thank you for carrying the me too message forward. We couldn't have done it without you. I feel sad that most men do not talk about what they go through. I was surprised when Terry Crews of Brooklyn nine nine fame came out and spoke out his experience and if he went through something like that, I am sure there have been other men too , who never opened up about theirs. This is a little thank you note to all you guys. my way of saying I appreciate you all for reading and voicing your thoughts. A safe weekend to all of you.